|Mother's Day 2015 // *personal photo*|
She's so smart- smarter than us, even, at times. And she's so goofy- she might have my smile, but when she wrinkles up her nose and does a silly voice, she's 100% your daughter. And she's so loving and affectionate- she'll wave at strangers and hug her best friend at the end of the day and kiss pictures of puppies on the computer screen. And she's so, so beautiful. This will all be a lethal combination when she's a teenager, I'm sure. Let's not think about that.
This year was fun. I've lost track of how many zoos and aquariums we've been to as a family now, each more exciting than the last, and the countless hours we've spent talking about fish and turtles. And we've watched her learn how to walk and then immediately start running around the house, around the playground, around the grocery store. We've ridden on airplanes, looked at spaceships, built block towers taller than she was, and watched all the Disney animated classics- with all the excitement and enthusiasm as if we were experiencing them for the first time, because it was her first time.
This year was hard, too. We had to make difficult decisions. We've each had to put the family before our individual selves. We've had to put some dreams on hold. We've had to bust our respective butts, and we've gotten very little sleep- and not because of the toddler.
But when I look back on this year, what I remember most is the fun.
When I look back on this year, I notice something else, too.
I got really good at being a mom this year, but I didn't necessarily get any better at being a wife. You've been amazing at both parenthood and marriage this year- you've handled public meltdowns like a champ, you've sat through countless hours of Elmo, you continue to buy me flowers for no reason, you do an unfairly large share of the housework, and you drop whatever it is that you're doing to let me vent to you when I've had an awful day at work (which is all the time).
So here's the deal: for year 4, I promise to step up my game. Remember how we used to gross out my sisters with the hand-holding and forehead-kissing and sitting-in-laps? Let's go back to that. And I should shut up every now and then and let you vent about your day (or, you know, play some Halo as that helps you unwind better than talking about your feelings). And maybe- just maybe- I'll do the dishes more often, too. I mean, I'm not a miracle worker, so that last one might be pushing it, but I sure can try.
Here's to another super fun year. I'm sure there will be hard times, we'll probably have to survive more tantrums (the 2-year-old might even be responsible for some), but if you hold my hand the whole time, we can keep laughing through it.
I love you, I love being married to you, I love being a parent with you. Let's keep learning and growing and getting better at this, together.
|photo via One Photo Gallery|